Hi Coach, Let’s talk about something that holds many of us back—people pleasing. If you’ve ever found yourself saying “yes” when you wanted to say “no,” avoiding tough conversations or bending over backwards to keep clients happy, you’re not alone. But here’s the thing: it’s not just costing you time and energy. It’s costing you respect, confidence, and your ability to show up as the authoritative coach your clients need. Here are 10 practical steps you can take right now to start overcoming...
16 days ago • 2 min read
Hi Coach, I’m excited to share some great news with you today – my audiobook is officially available on Audible! Recording this audiobook was an incredibly rewarding experience. A year after the book was published, a few close people encouraged me to get into the studio and make it happen. Over two days and nine hours of recording, we turned Become an Authoritative Coach into a two-and-a-half-hour audiobook, which is now ready for you to listen to. 🎧 Download from Audible today What made this...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
Hi Coach, I was recently a guest on Trevor Lee’s Better Presentations More Sales podcast, and it was a fantastic conversation you don’t want to miss. The episode is titled Don’t be a people pleaser, and we dove deep into the problem of people pleasing, especially in the context of delivering presentations. It’s a challenge I’ve been targeting, and there’s a lot I unpacked in this interview that I haven’t shared before. 🎧 Listen here: Don't be a people pleaser with Chris Marr One of the key...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
Hi Coach, Thanks to those who responded with your thoughts on how you would handle the client situation I shared earlier. Now, I would like to explain how I actually responded and explain why this approach works. But first, let’s look at how a people pleaser and an authoritative coach might react differently. The people-pleaser response People pleasers often have a high need to be liked, and that can drive their behaviour in tough moments like this. When a client comes to you with...
about 2 months ago • 4 min read
Hi Coach, Let me set the scene for you. I was jumping into a session with a client, a sales and marketing strategy client I’ve been working with for six months. I think everything’s on track, and I'm prepared for a typical coaching session. But right out the gate, the client surprises me with... "Chris, we’re getting really frustrated. We’ve put in the work over the last six months, but we’re not seeing the results we expected. We’re nowhere close to feeling like we’re getting the ROI we...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
Hi Coach, As coaches, consultants, or client-facing professionals, we often find ourselves laser-focused on overcoming challenges, solving problems, and driving results for our clients. But in the pursuit of value and transformation, there’s one crucial element that many of us overlook—compassion. The problem is that we can get so caught up in tackling the obstacles that we forget to recognise the progress our clients are making. Without this recognition, we risk creating a pressure-filled,...
2 months ago • 3 min read
Episode 4 - Watch on YouTube Hi Coach, As you look ahead to another busy week, it’s essential to prepare for the critical conversations you'll have with your clients. But how often do we find ourselves reacting to problems rather than proactively addressing them? This week's focus is on a simple yet powerful question: Are you getting ahead of client concerns, or are you waiting for them to become problems? For more detailed insights, check out the podcast on your favourite platform: Watch on...
3 months ago • 4 min read
Hi Coach, Coaching is a dynamic and often challenging process, filled with moments where we need to assess not just the progress our clients are making, but also our own approach. This week, I’m diving into a topic that resonates with many of us: how to address client setbacks proactively before they become major obstacles. For more detailed insights, check out the podcast on your favourite platform: Watch on YouTube Read on LinkedIn Listen on Spotify/Apple Key Takeaways: Understanding Client...
3 months ago • 3 min read
Hi Coach, Welcome to this week's edition of Critical Client Conversations. This email provides a summary of what to expect in the latest episode of our podcast. It's designed to help you decide if this week's content will be valuable for you and to provide insights and practical strategies even if you don't watch the accompanying video or listen to the podcast. Let's explore how we can shift from enforcement to empowerment in our coaching practices, fostering true accountability in our...
3 months ago • 4 min read